I usually don’t post entries during the weekend (well, from the looks of it, I haven’t been posting much of anything recently), but since today is a special day, and I’m sitting at the laundromat waiting for clothes to wash, I figured I’d share the happy day with everyone.

Today marks one year since I said “yes, I’ll be your girlfriend”. Not only has this been my longest relationship of all time, it has also been the most trying, emotionally draining relationship I’ve had to endure, but it’s all been worth it. I can’t remember a time I’ve felt happier (minus my blissful days as a kid, getting pampered by daddy and mommy). I’ve learned to open up, confront (not 100% but I’m getting there), and state my mind when need be. My boyfriend has done nothing but treat me with the utmost respect, be freakishly patient with me, and remind me every single day that I’m his princess.

Every day has felt like a new day with him, and now looking back at when we first met, I’m thinking of how I still get the jitters when I get to see him. Now, on the downside, I’ve kind of let myself go a little in terms of my physical appearance. I really am starting to resemble a Beluga whale and could definitely use a gym. But the point is, he’s the only person (aside from good friends and family) that has made me feel 110% comfortable in my skin, and I really love him for that.

I’ve had people tell me, sure he’ll be nice to me now (anything to get his Green Card), but five years down the line, he could turn into an abusive husband, a cheater, and a bad man.  Sure, that could happen, and yes I’m probably the most naive person when it comes to love and relationships, but I’m willing to take those chances. I really can’t explain why I know he’s right for me, nor do I feel I have to, and despite his less than perfect ability to speak English (though, it has improved greatly since we first met), I have an understanding with him that I don’t think I can find with anybody else.

I’m not talking about the whole “he’s the ONE” nonsense. I don’t believe in that stuff. I’m just saying he’s right for me, not necessarily Mr. Right. For everything he’s done and everything he’s been for me, I’m very grateful. He’s the best boyfriend in the world (said in a teeny bopper “oh my gosh” kind of tone)!

4th of July on the Esplanade